Mr. Stout
I’m the living proof. Now… let’s not all get too excited just yet. It wasn’t all canes, hairbrushes and belts. It definitely took some time.
Ok, I admit. I’m a butt man. Big butts and thighs… Curves are my thing. So what does this have to do with spanking?? Well, a lot for me. As a “butt man” I like to see them jiggle and wiggle. There’s something about that movement. When you slap down on a nice round booty, that 🌊 wave is so, so nice to see. It’s one of those magical moments.
I dabbled a bit with spanking back in the day with some ex girlfriends. A tap here and there but nothing too exciting. More as a joke but I now realize that perhaps it meant more than that. When I met Mrs. Stout, we were able to be friends before lovers and maybe this helped with the openness regarding the topic. When she showed me what she liked, I wasn’t turned off by it. Quite the contrary, it turned me on. There is something very sexy about a woman who knows what she wants.
As the years went by, I began to enjoy it more and more. It was hot and I could see how much it turned her on. But was I good at it??? I was just learning, fast forward 10years…I now have a PhD in OTK. 🤭 Just like anything else, when you build up confidence and your significant other praises you, you become better at it. As you become better at something, you tend to enjoy it more. And as you see what pleasure and happiness you bring your partner, this makes it all come together.
The spankings now mean more to me then ever. It’s a special moment between Mrs.Stout and I. It’s special because it brings us close. There is trust, there is love, there is passion and most importantly, there is all that communication between us that joins us tightly. That sex and submission video she showed me, will always have a special place in my heart.
What I am saying is that it’s all about communication. Communicate your thoughts… your dirty ones. Give each other time to digest them. Talk openly about it. Maybe it’s your thing…maybe not. But at least be open to listen to your partner. After all, who doesn’t deserve a good slap on their booty?
Happy Spanking,
Mr. Stout
Mrs. Stout
Absolutely!! How do I know?? I did it!!
What was probably the perfect prerequisite for Mr. Stout’s conversion is that he is a butt lover. Converting him into a Spanko didn’t happen overnight though. It was a process of many years until he was as much into spanking as I am. Being a true gentleman, spanking a woman was against his upbringing and it took a while to rewire his brain.
Back then the spankings weren’t long enough or strong enough and didn’t happen often enough but I wasn’t pushy about it. Asking for a spanking just isn’t the same as being told you’ll get spanked.
Sharing videos, GIFs, and fantasies have been very helpful in the process and so is giving feedback during or after a spanking. But what changed things from good to amazing was letting him read my books.
Mr. Stout is always the first to read my books and my favorite person to discuss new story ideas. Knowing my fantasies in detail, made him act on it a lot more frequently and OMG it’s so good!
If you’re a man who wants to spank a woman, I think it’s even easier. Start with a sensual butt massage. Get that backside excited about any type of touch and move yourself up slowly and gently. This is not the time to take out paddles or canes. Hand, hand, and more hand. Mix up the spanks with a lot of touch to warm up her bottom and heart to the wonderful world of spanking.
And always keep in mind:
- Gentlemen, it’s totally fine to spank a woman when done consensually!!!
- Communication is lubrication.
- Give it time.
- Until your Non-Spanko partner is fully converted into a Spanko, your fantasy is your best friend.
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