Mr. Stout
Work, social media, friends, family, phones ….constant distractions. It seems like everything is done in a way to distract you from what you are supposed to do. Well, it’s true. It is that way. The new norm is to be always busy. It’s not normal to do just one thing.
But(t), let’s talk about that one thing that gives us what we truly want and desire, drum roll please……an orgasm.
Who doesn’t want to have one? Well, I am sure there are lots of people who are too busy to even think of having one. It is challenging when we are busy all day long and get home exhausted.
Now that we’ve covered the negative, let us jump into the positive. My experience tells me that if I constantly try to focus on getting down and dirty in the evening, chances are, it won’t happen. Perhaps it is the mental energy it requires combined with the day-to-day. But at the end, hitting the pillow and getting some sleep is all my body craves. My strategy: don’t over-focus on it. A few dirty texts to your significant other during the day to keep things spicy without overdoing it. Try and maintain that level of spice without necessarily going all out. Just enough to want more. Then when you are done with your day and away from those daily distractions, set the mood. Turn off the notifications and for god sake, watch some porn people. Do it with your partner. It will help get things flowing. Once it flows, our animal instincts kick it and we will lose ourselves in that moment. After all, it is like a muscle so take the time to train it and be patient with one another. One last thing….don’t forget to be open and have fun.
As for distraction, this is one and I need to stop writing so that I can get down and dirty.
Happy boinking everyone!
Mr. Stout
Mrs. Stout
Whether it’s because of stress at work, lack of sleep, kids, teenagers, responsibilities, family obligations, holidays, war, or bad news in general: Our kinky life takes a hit!
Of course it’s okay to take a break, rest, binge-watch Bridgerton and just fuck off sometimes, BUT(T) it’s important to find back to your smuttiness sooner than later.
Forget about the apple, an orgasm a day keeps the doctor away!
- Find out your partners’ sexy hour. We all have that special time of the day where our hormones go wild….I LOVE the afternoons.
- Wake up that dormant inner slut and get the blood pumping down there. Best time for a wake up call is shortly after your period says goodbye. And once she’s awake….keep on entertaining her daily!
- Watch porn together
- Read Annika’s smutty spanking romance
- Send sexy GIF’s to each other of things that turn you on
- If you feel too lazy for acrobatics, try out masturbating next to each other
- Last but not least: Switch off the news because ignorance is bliss!
What tips and tricks do you have to get back into your smuttiness when life gets in the way?
Mrs. Stout
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