Mr. Stout’s Anal Tips
What is it about anal we like so much? Is it because it’s so wrong yet so right. It’s dirty … hopefully in a good way 😉.
Let’s face it, we all joke about it, talk about it, fantasize about it… perhaps dabble a bit but are we actually experiencing it?
I am a fan but I would be lying if I said that it’s for everyone. In my opinion you need 4 things to make it work.
1. Trust
2. Lube
3. Communication
4. A lot of the 3 points mentioned before.
It takes time. Time to initiate, time to get comfortable and time to get in… 😉.
Let’s not rush anything, the best things in life take time.
How can one even bring up the issue if it’s been an “access denied zone”🙅🙅?
Well, there’s always a nice butt massage. Get to know your partner, communicate about what feels good and let them know that they are doing a good job. Communication is key during these types of shenanigans.
If you are going to try out any toys to initiate play,I recommend that you invest in proper toys and quality products. After all, if you are going to stick anything up your bum…. At least make sure it’s the best of the best. That precious hole deserves nothing BUT(T) the best.
Last BUT(T) not least… hygiene people and lots of it. Let’s keep things clean and should anything get stained… let’s not freak out. Shitake happens.
Happy boinking!
Mr. Stout
Mrs. Stout’s Anal Tips
A blog post is hardly enough to get into deep (pun intended) detail about How-To Anal…. BUT(T) I will try to keep this short and simple and add writing a book about it to my long to-do list.
- Anal isn’t for everyday…don’t surprise your partner by just sticking your finger etc. in the back entrance unless you are ready for…
- (For me) it’s a couple thing. It requires lots of trust and for the other person to be able to read your body language.
- Clean Up before. If you worry about poop getting in the way, it’s hardly the best way to relax.
- Get familiar with your own butt before involving others. Squat in the bathtub and insert a lubricated finger. (Also the best method to do a clean check or clean up if needed)
- Before you go for the real thing, introduce small anal plugs and work yourself up to a larger size slowly
- The receiver is in charge
- It shouldn’t hurt and certainly not bleed
- You have to go slow, slow, slow
- A nice butt massage to start off with, will relax
- If you choose to use condoms, try out latex free ones, they don’t stink that much
- Silicone lube all the way! The water-based stuff just dries up way too fast
- Positions: I find missionary best to relax. Reverse cowgirl is pretty amazing and gives you lots of room to stimulate your pussy at the same time.
- If you don’t enjoy it the 1st, 2nd or 3rd time, take a break from it, but(t) chances are that if your dirty mind can’t stop fantasizing about it, you will enjoy it one day.
Mrs. Stout